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Japanese skypesex

And now it looks like we've got a new pair of role models to add to the list.

Think of all the times you tried to “study” together when you lived together (or think back on previous relationships). I’m guilty of checking email and Facebook stalking during Skype calls. Just remember: 20 minutes of quality Skype time 20 minutes of quality study time is MUCH better than a crappy hour of Skyping and “studying” where nothing much gets done. Then, you know, we have something to chat about for the next couple days. They can be brought on by anything – a missed deadline, homework piling up, or getting sick.

I get distracted easily – I can’t stare at the computer screen for too long. I’ve found the best way to keep Skyping new and fresh (even after 13 months of it) is to not always do one-on-one chats. We are fortunate – both of us met at Ursinus College when Ryosuke studied abroad. I like to pass the laptop with Ryosuke around to other friends once a month, so he still feels like an integral part of my life here. The hardest part about being in a long distance relationship (aside from, you know the normal horrible parts of a relationship) is the fact they can’t always be there. Even when we both DID live in Japan, we still lived a 13 hour bus ride away from each other (Akita to Tokyo).

And by “worked for me,” I mean that my husband and I survived the distance; we’re happily married now, living in Japan. Between school, work, friends, and studying – it is hard enough to block out 20 minutes for your favorite trashy reality television show, never mind an hour to chat with your significant other. I have much better time management skills, because the only constant thing in my life are my Skype dates.

He lays out a good way to approach LDRs – regardless of whether you expect to be in an LDR for a couple of months or a couple of years. I’ve noticed as soon as we starting Skype once a day, the number of (and the magnitude of) our fights decreased drastically.

In the video, model man and woman (probably not actual lovers) wear underwear with sensors in them.

Then, they use an app on their smartphones to "touch" each other's sensitive areas (though it's unclear from the video how the woman's panty sensors would, you know, "work."I'm gonna go ahead and say now that this is patently stupid.

We don’t Skype with friends for long, maybe five to ten minutes max – once or twice a month. I love waking up in the morning to find videos of Ryosuke awkwardly lip-syncing to something by Maroon 5, chatting about his day, or dancing around his room. Find what works for you and do it as often as possible. Then we would “eat dinner” together – with a plate of food on the table in between us and the laptops.

Most of my friends laughed when I told them about my Skype dinner dates.

Sometimes if I have to go the bathroom or buy a drink, I will drop my laptop off with a friend to keep him company. He physically can’t be here for me when I need him – which is a depressing, but unfortunate, barrier in our relationship. Not long messages – just the short, standard 3 minute video that Skype lets you send. When Ryosuke wakes up (or gets back from work) he can watch the video to check up on me. I have a lot of friends in long distance relationships – half of which (on average) cheat on their significant other without meaning to. My favorite part about doing long distance in Japan was eating dinner together.

I’ve met most of his friends in Japan; when they have “boy’s nights out” they will typically Skype me before they leave. They ask my permission to “take Ryosuke out” somewhere fun. How I Met Your Mother is one of the few shows he will actually watch – so we try to watch an episode once a week (during the season). We open Skype in one window, the episode in another window, and chat throughout the episode. We have a 14 hour time difference, if I have an attack at 1pm, it is 3am for him. Even when we don’t have problems, I try to send a couple video messages a day. Of course Skype can’t fill the void you miss by cuddling, falling asleep in each other’s arms, or kissing – but there is no reason to make yourself sexually frustrated. We were both in the same time zone; when we got back to our respective apartments at night, we would launch Skype, chat about our day, and unwind over a can of beer or glass of wine. I would put my laptop next to the stove while I made stir fry, cut vegetables, and fried meat.

What are Billy and Chynna doing that has suddenly put them in the middle of our post-dating radar? Some of them are still long-distance: others have made it through the geographic separation and are now living in the same regions or cities.