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So what's the most popular porn site on the planet?

And yeah, they should have a legal right to access porn and to pay for sex (with people who are above the age of consent).

But I still think they're shitholes for going to an economically struggling and spiritually wounded country so they can have sex with people who they believe have less of an ability to say no.

It also means that Asian women, Latina women and "Ebony" women are categorised in the same way that certain sex acts or fetishes like blowjobs or feet might be.

That isn't to say that women only do porn because they don't have options – I'm hesitant to write about this stuff because there are such established feminist camps here, and the conversations tend to recycle the same old arguments. Seeing that, I have never in my life had such a visceral, ragey reaction to strangers; I have never shot so many filthy looks at men I don't know; I had never before seriously thought to myself, "I fucking HATE men." Until I saw all those white men in Cambodia. I am certainly not under the impression that every woman in a lower-income country is doing sex work out of pure desperation, or doesn't want to be doing what she's doing.

There's a reason that in a sea of free porn, so many men are drawn to a website where they (a) get to tell the women what to actually do, and (b) can very easily be under the impression that the women on the site are there out of financial necessity. Not because we don't outsource all kind of other shit and exploit folks in developing countries in far more destructive ways – we totally do that.

But there's an arms' length relationship when you buy shoes that were made in Indonesia that goes away when you're paying for sex. That isn't to say that paying for sex is always bad, but it is to say that in my ideal world, sex should be mutually pleasurable and consensual.

Basically, it's interesting that what men prefer the most is watching women strip on a webcam and being able to talk to them while they do, telling the women what they want to see.